To be a mother, a man and his unrestrained sex urge is also required.
We can tell girls to think of consequences and to say "NO".
We also need to tell boys and men to think of consequences and to hold "NO". Many men have not learned about responsibilities. Especially, a father responsibility, a family reponsibility, a leader and provider reponsibility,...
Good society must learn to exercise 'rights' and 'responsibilities' in acceptable ways.