We blame our past.

We blame our lacks of intelligence, money, connections, resources and time...

We blame our 'self' and all that our 'sati' did not serve well.

The Buddhs's Teaching (I think) is not about 'dwelling' in Dukkha (in the past).

But about understanding Dukkha in the past and learning to live happily 'today'.

We know the Buddha's Teaching and many modern interpreters -- we can do just that.

Let us live with our good characters and good skills, today.