May I ask "what is the value of a giving?"

Should we value the gift from the giver's or the receiver's point of view?

Many people give to relieve their stress (from contacts with 'unpleasant situations' or experiences).

Like when we give a coin to beggar to uplift our spirit and our salvation (to be happy ever afterwards).

Like when we give to show that we are a part of the community (group/family/village/town/...) -- and hope for our turns...

It is not easy to dwell on this issue --give and forget and be happy--

;-)